Tired of duds emailing you? Here’s how to attract a successful guy online!
Are you on the verge of giving up on online dating because you feel like all the emails you get are from guys who aren’t even remotely a good fit for you? Maybe you want a successful, loving guy, but you keep getting one-line notes from men who aren’t at all established or from players who aren’t looking for anything serious? Starting to wonder if the kind of guy you want is even someone who would be online?
If any of these questions resonate with you, I have great news! There are many successful, loving guys online and they’re looking for YOU! The secret to attract a successful guy online and getting him to email you lies in how you set up your profile.
Think about it…
Like attracts like.
Set up your profile to attract the kind of partner that absolutely fits you. Not only by how you describe your ideal match, but also, by what you highlight about yourself. For example, if you describe yourself as “a catch” or how you like conversations with smart men, or enjoy challenging or upscale activities like competing in marathons or attending black tie charity events, you would appeal more to an alpha male. If you talk about your meditation practice, Eckhardt Tolle and the heaven you see in a wildflower you would appeal to a more yin Soulmate. It you talk about how prayer comes before brushing your teeth in the morning you will catch the attention of a religious man. In any case, you need to be authentic about what you are saying. It’s just a matter of emphasis on certain aspects of who you really are.
Of course, when it comes to describing your ideal match, using phrases like, “You are doing extraordinary things” or “You are a leader who loves your work but also takes time to enjoy the little things” entice a successful, open guy.
Not sure what to write for your profile to attract the right guy? Below is an example for you to jump start it!
This is a profile designed to attract a successful, loving guy:
Men have called me warm, witty, smart and beautiful—a catch! Friends say I’m a loving, loyal, caring person who is delicious and amusing in my own unique way. I love an adventure, whether far away or right next door. Adventure is a state of mind BUT just in case I have a freshly minted passport and some bug spray. I’m handy with a map, can drive a stick, pack lightly and easily make friends with the locals. Comfortable in jeans and boots, heels and gowns, Top-Sider boat shoes and bikini. Love to ski, and sail. Most importantly, ready to create an extraordinary love match where I am there for my man, as he is there for me.
Here are some things I love:
I love the Impressionists, Monet in particular
I love great opera and Bruce Springsteen
I love cooking my signature savory lamb chops for my extraordinary friends
I love a great tennis match (watching and playing!)
I love clever conversations with a smart man
I love hiking the local trails at sunset with my Irish setter, Max
J’adore Montréal et en particulier j’aime voyager en train pour y aller.
You love your life and are doing amazing things with it. You are ready to create an extraordinary win-win partnership filled with adventure, passion, love and laughter.
Does any of this resonate? Email me. Let’s see if we have an amazing story to create together…
If you’re ready to meet the right one for you, I’m here to help you even more. Contact me now to schedule a complimentary one-on-one mentoring session with one of my expert Love Mentor® Coaches. Your personal coach will not only help you create an online dating profile to attract a successful guy online — the kind of guy you want, they’ll also support you in becoming your most confident irresistible self and guide you as the relationship unfolds.
About Dr. Diana Kirschner
Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a relationship advice expert, frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show and the creator of a globally available dating coach and Love Mentor® program. Dr. Diana is also the best-selling author of the acclaimed relationship advice book, "Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor's Guide to Lasting Love", and of the best-selling relationship and dating book, “Love in 90 Days”. Love in 90 Days was the basis of her PBS Special on love. Connect with Dr. Diana through her Dating Tips & Relationship Advice Newsletter.“Diana Kirschner’s work is life-changing, love-affirming and wonderfully effective.” ~Dr. Christiane Northrup, Internationally bestselling author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom.